How to find true love?
Posted on2024-03-08
How to find
TRUE LOVE ?
Posted on 08/03/2024
When a woman's heart beats, life resonates and love radiates. How to find TRUE LOVE? Do you fall into the "single girl" category and dream of being in a relationship? Do you dream of going on vacation together, but not necessarily with your girlfriend? Are you looking for a new, serious, sincere, pure and lasting romantic relationship? But how do you go about finding someone? How to find your perfect match? Are you really ready to take this step and to experience strong feelings again without being afraid to take the plunge?
How do you see yourself? Is there a real way to find love? There are many dating sites, many ways of approaching love and countless love coaches. They suggest methods to seduce, give advice to help you find your soulmate, become the best version of yourself, review your communication style, use the tunnel effect, a technique defined as unstoppable seduction through the eyes, to increase your power of seduction. They help you identify the signs of a serious and lasting relationship, use reverse psychology ... They also help you regain your self-confidence.
The different techniques are numerous and we can only congratulate them for this remarkable work they are keen to share with you. So what's THE KEY to finding love, your life story, that person, that romantic relationship you've been waiting for? So many ads about it!! Which one is the right one? The fundamental question is: Is it necessary to follow a method when it comes to love, emotions, feelings, truth, and authenticity? Let's start by changing the way we look at the subject by taking the word LOVE back to its proper root. Let's take a step back!
Here's the first blog post suggesting an atypical, inverted approach to finding true love. By "true love" I mean a man who shares your values, a wise man for eternity. True love is rare and precious. So why look for it? Here is the reverse key to apply without moderation! 😉 The rule is not to expect anything and to do good around you unselfishly. Then, when your angels feel you’re ready (it may take some painful steps (challenges) to get you where you need to be, trust in the divine plan, no matter how harsh it may be), they will move Heaven and Earth to deliver you on a platter: LOVE with a capital A!
So I invite you to read the detailed (inverted) KEY below to find LOVE: TRUST THE PROCESS: YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE! Adopt a healthy, joyful, authentic and balanced life. Do the things that make you happy and allow you to feel love and wonder. Cultivate sincerity and integrity towards yourself. Free yourself from the obstacles, fears, and anxieties blocking you. Overcome them with unshakeable mental strength through positive thinking. Regain confidence through faith. Practice gratitude and open up to the source of life to find your path, and fulfill your spiritual destiny. Implore Heaven to bring you Love. Also remember to entrust in your prayers all those close to you, all those who suffer, close or not so close, but also those you love less, so that Heaven may help them find their way (knowing how to forgive means detaching yourself from evil), and for Humanity. If your prayers are pure and sincere, Heaven will listen to you!
Then, think, reason and always opt for all that is pure by removing the impure. Have the courage, even in the most difficult moments, to say no (with respect and integrity) to toxic relationships, whatever they may be, even if they might seem to offer you security, or ephemeral pleasure. True security is not to be found in the material world but in the spiritual world. Remember that a rotten pear, when it comes into contact with it, also pollutes you over time. Surround yourself with positive people who share your values, who believe in you to the end, even in times of turmoil, and who have eyes shining when they see you. If you make a mistake, don't blame yourself. Recognize your mistakes and move on! Nobody’s perfect! Remember that a married man is sacred! Do you like him? I invite you to walk away and stop dreaming!
If this married man is for you, it's up to the Celestial machine to decide. She may, in fact, feel that this beautiful person is out of place, because Heaven knows things this person doesn’t know, in this case, Heaven will place this person on your path with a new status. However, we shouldn’t wish for a couple to be destroyed - quite the opposite! Once again, it's not up to you to decide, nor to hope for it: keep focusing on what's pure. The pure leads to pure, and the impure leads to impure! Finally, focus on the small gestures you make every day that feel good by caring for others. Every gesture, every word, including to yourself, must have meaning, a focus and positive intention filled with love and passion.
Forget your attachment to the material world and naturally offer love to those around you: a smile, an outstretched hand, kindness and all without condition of reciprocity. Like the bee, an example of life and emblem of Christ, unconditional worker, work for the community (the common pot)! By turning towards others in a sincere and genuine way, we forget ourselves and take real pleasure in life. And this is where Agape love comes into its own. I-AGAPE !! And if, by chance, the karmic law of selfless (by giving love, we reap it), offers you the rare pearl, this Love you’ve been waiting for, take the time! Grab your best LUMACA ear cuff (=snail in Italian) 😉 to remind yourself that it is necessary to enjoy a loving friendship first. Self-love requires self-respect. Self-respect means respecting your body. So baby (in love), calm down!
Run away from people who keep telling you, "You have to enjoy it!" Does enjoying mean giving yourself over easily to any man? Learn to focus on yourself and be alone. This can take years. Trust yourself, your body and mind adapt to anything. Loneliness is painful, but know that through this healthy attitude you will receive graces from heaven. The angels will shower you with so much love that you’ll feel their presence all the time, and you’ll never feel alone again. Remember that things that go too fast don't work out; they can only last for so long, the time for passionate love. The game is distorted. It’s all an illusion.
Want to keep your Triton by your side? Forget about the past, because your partner doesn't have to pay for it. Let yourself be carried away by the magic of love, entrusting that love to Heaven and TRUST THE PROCESS. Remind your mistakes, not to make yourself feel guilty, but to avoid repeating them. Shower your TRITON with love and attention without question. Let your heart speak and it will give you the best! Be a good listener, always respectful, non-judgmental and understanding as a mother would be with her own child.
Your partner has a dream, it's up to you to accompany him or her and to help him or her surpass themselves to achieve it! Spend time and share special moments with your TRITON, prioritizing quality over quantity.
Don't let work, no matter how exciting, take over the time you give to your loving half. Find the right balance!Love is a romantic work in progress, a construction project for two that relies on challenges to be met in order to lay on healthy, solid and sustainable foundations.